Morris Chestnut and his wife Pam Byse have survived three decades of marriage and the secrets to their successful union come to no surprise, but are often overlooked by couples.

Morris told the hosts at CBS Mornings that if he had the answer to how to make a relationship last that he’d bottle it up and sell it. He went on to say that he only knows what works for them.

Mutual respect goes a long way.

The two tied the knot in 1995 and share two children, Grant and Paige.